Sandra Merrigan:  

Life: there you are minding your own business and ''WHACK'' - the years are gone and gravity has taken over your life and the trolls are looking back at you from your bathroom mirror in the mornings ....... . LOL .. ahhh well - what to say - so many years gone by - got married - had family - got divorced AND now have two BEAUTIFUL little granddaughters. I work in office administration - love my job - date occasionally - well thats not quite true - I date 'rarely' - mr. right kept turning left .... or I kept pushing him left - can't decide which .... ''LMAO'' I am at 'that' age when I wonder what the heck happened to whatshername or where did good old 'whatshisname' go. SO - what have YOU guys been up to ?? HEY - I got an idea - Look me up on facebook and send me a message - I said I had an idea - didnt say it was a good one (harharharharh) - I'd love to know your story - what HAVE you been up to this past 40 years .... ????? FROM Q&A I always wanted to be a mom when I grew up (or the wife of a very wealthy businessman who was out of town on very long business trips all the time but who always had the bank account fully topped-up for me .... tee hee hee). My family and friends thought that was a retarded idea. As it turns out, they were almost right. I relax by watching movie trilogies - sometimes for 12 hours at a time - just get lost in the story - and there you go - your troubles have dissapeared - for a little while anyway. The wildest thing I did in school? Cant say! NO really I cant. If I'm going to work somewhere, I need to have COFFEE, COFFEE, and and more COFFEE to be able to deal with the day-to-day. I have lived in so many places - either because dad was military or the ex was in banking - or just so I could clear out some of the juck I had collected over the years - can anyone say "pack-rat" ... The one person (actually two) from my past who I'd most like to see again is SHAREN & BETTE, because I somehow felt such a connection with them. MOVIES are my obsession, that and taking pictures of my granddaughters. My BIGGEST surprise in life was that the ex got re-married before me - AAARRGGHHHH - LOL - he's so brave - and I say GOOD for him. He seems content enough. If I could improve my home, I'd remodel the kitchen -put a big addition on the front of the house so it would be lots bigger - and add on a big deck. My dream home would be just where I am at the time that I'm there. I have learned from my children to NEVER take your kids love and respect for granted - it has to be earned. I admire my Grade ...Expand for more