Sarah Byrd:  

CLASS OF 1997
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Silver lake, KS
Silver lake, KS

Sarah's Story

A 'story', huh? Share what I've been up to? Why not. Since my celebrated departure from Silver Lake back in 1994 I have went on to other schools with a much higher degree of success in social scenes. After several years of traveling the country and spending time assisting with different causes (including volunteering for Natural Disaster Aids, Health Awareness Programs and assisting States in gaining access to ASPCA attention, etc.), I am currently residing in the South and beginning my career with a Fortune 500 company. Does any of that make me better than the next person on the street, not really. I do however, believe it to be a few steps ahead of what many of you thought possible for such a 'nerd' like myself. While I approach my 33rd birthday in the Fall, I look back and I am proud of the person I have become. I am without children and husband, but still in the throes of love with my long-time boyfriend and extremely tight-knit with my mother. I couldn't help stopping a sarcastic, if not cynical laugh at the statement "Remind them who you are". That's the easiest thing to do as many of you will remember me as the poor girl from the country who you teased and tormented daily during the school years I was there. The girl whose hair was cut in class, beat up by a High School student she didn't know in the hallway, while none of you present offered assistance. I don't remember any of you caring that in that attack I received a black eye, a skull fracture and two broken ribs and three days of In-School suspension. Or how about the girl whose 5th Grade teacher had her write on the chalk board a statement regarding her mother's inability to afford gym shoes, ...Expand for more
you know ... the girl you shoved or tripped in the hallways every chance given. The one who you called degrading names and bullied relentlessly while teachers and parents turned the other cheek. Yes, you remember now. While I would love you to believe I have become wildly famous or materially rich, it wouldn't be true. While I struggled for a good part of my youth because of my mistrust and jaded beliefs on human behaviors and motives, I came to realize that while the torment I suffered at the hands of my peers throughout Elementary and Junior High had a impact on my psyche, I believe that the strong woman I have become is a result of situations I have experienced thus far in my life. While I will never thank any of you for unknowingly assisting me into becoming a strong person, I believe that after all this time, it is now that I shall let go the grudges I have held against you. While you may want to convince yourself that "we were only kids then", that is merely a poor excuse, NOT a justification for your mistreatment. Once you learn to read and write, you are old enough to know the basic Right from Wrong. For those of you with children of your own, I hope they will never face such obstacles as being bullied. If they are, then I hope they become strong individuals like myself and that you will then feel true sympathy for the actions you bestowed upon others and will think twice before making a disparaging remark or take action to make another feel less of themselves. At the end of the day love yourself and those around you and know that every thing you say or do (bad or good) makes a difference to someone. I forgive you all, but I will never forget.
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