Thomas Hammett:  

CLASS OF 1967
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Montgomery, AL
Tallahassee, FL
Troy, AL

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The Gift of October 29, 1995 Thomas Hammett At the time of this writing, it has been one year since one of the most enjoyable weekends of my life. It was a time of enormous summary of most of the people, places and events that have been truly dear to me for nearly a half-century. Plans had been in preparation for many months to attend the special half-time celebration at the Troy State University football game during the weekend of October 29, 1995. The special nature of the event was the celebration of the accomplishments and retirement of Bandmaster Johnny Long. Dr. Long is that ¿teacher of legendary influence¿ who, far more than in his area of music, affected the lives of countless thousands of musicians and citizens throughout the nation. Beyond his role as teacher, musician and inspiration, he has been a friend for over forty years. I had not participated in the homecoming festivities since graduation from Troy State in 1971 and had not visited the campus but once since completion of the Masters program in 1975. Twenty years is a fairly long time to stay away, and I must admit that mixed with the excitement of seeing the band, Dr. Long and many old school mates, I had a bit of apprehension associated with touching base with that segment of my past. Apprehensions immediately evaporated as we settled onto the campus. I drove by my old dorm and down past the bandroom and practice field (parking lot). As my family got out of the van we noticed a commotion just down the block. We went to investigate and could not have stumbled into a better situation. The 800-member combination alumni and university band was rehearsing for the special half-time performance. Phil Kelley was announcing over the P.A. system and the excitement could not have been any higher. We settled in to watch the rehearsal and hadn¿t been there more than three or four minutes when Mrs. Long walked by. We exchanged greetings and she issued instructions (as any loving mother would) for me to get out on the field and take my position. I explained to her I had not planned to participate on the field during the half-time, that we were there just to enjoy the festivities. She would not stand for such nonsense and insisted that I take my place immediately. From out of thin air, a couple of my old buddies produced a snare drum and a pair of sticks. Faye found an official T-shirt and cap and there I was in the middle of the rehearsal, remembering the drum parts to the familiar Johnny Long arrangements as if I had played them the day before. What an incredible, over-powering feeling occurred as the band exploded into the fanfare. Eight- hundred marvelously talented musicians (and has-beens) recreating and culminating the memories and efforts of a lifetime of marching band participation, and all packed into a few hours of rehearsal, eating a meal together and then the evening football game. The emotions of the moment were indescribable, for there was so much more than marching band history taking place. The evening was a resounding success. Dr. Long received the honor of 500 former students traveling from all parts of the country to participate in the alumni band. He received honors from many officials such as the Mayor of Troy, the Governor of Alabama, as well as the United States Congress and the President. There was even a statue presented to the University in Dr. Long¿s likeness. The next morning proved to be, albeit in less grandiose proportions, a very special Sunday in my family archives. I knew that my oldest brother, Willie, would be involved in the Troy State celebrations, but I didn¿t realize that I would have the opportunity to visit with my other brothers, Ken and George, Jr. during the same trip. Mom had arranged for me to sing special music at her church that morning and for Willie to play his trumpet for the offertory. It was quite a surprise when the entire family was assembled to attend the Presbyterian Church...all together...under the same church roof...as a family... for the first time in over thirty years. That assemblage alone could account for several chapters of writing. I realized during the minutes when I sang ¿The Holy City¿ that our time together would become one of those memorable occasions in my life. And certainly it has. Willie, being the family gadget man, was alert enough to bring along a good quality camera that weekend and took some outstanding candid shots. What would a Sunday at church be without returning to Mom¿s house afterwards for roast beef, mashed potatoes and gravy, numerous vegetables and desserts? Well, I guess she out-smarted us that time. The church provided a nearly endless spread of everybody¿s favorites at a covered-dish luncheon. So our entire mob was thoroughly fed; George and Opal, the four sons and wives, and a handful of grandchildren...and not a dish to be washed. It¿s difficult to believe that the Marx brothers, Bob Hope and Johnny Carson made so much money doing for cash and fame what the Hammett brothers have done for free and obscurity for nearly fifty years. If laughter is the best medicine, that afternoon¿s comedy should keep us healthy for quite a while. It was great sitting around sharing old family stories, lots of jokes, puns and any other situation we could stretch into humor. Dad wasn¿t able to talk very much by that point, but a couple of timely one-word responses, coupled with the right facial expressions allowed him to keep up pretty well in the humor. It had been a dozen or so years since Dad had suffered a heart attack and subsequent triple bypass surgery. It was at that time I discovered that the authoritative rock in my family was in reality a normal mortal human being and was subject to faltering health and (as unbelievable as it was) subject to possible death. The shock waves tremored to my foundation and the resulting prayer on his behalf was perhaps the deepest I had ever prayed...as much for me in my unprepared-for-his-departure state...as for his recovery. Thankfully, he was spared and returned to good health for many years. It was again rather shocking when Mom called early in November to let us know that Dad was going into the hospital for some tests. He had been waking up during the night somewhat disoriented, rising from bed and falling. Within two weeks from the time of our visit, Dad was in the hospital. Following a series of tests it was determined that he was suffering from fairly advanced liver cancer that had apparently spread to his lungs. Nothing had ever been more sobering than that news. He could expect only a few months of life at best. Within two weeks he was moved to Crowne Nursing Home in Montgomery where he...Expand for more
received wonderful and personalized care. Mom was certainly in no physical condition to care for him alone at home. I was able to make three trips to Montgomery before the end of 1995. Faye, the girls and I went down while Dad was in the Hospital then shortly thereafter when he went to the nursing home. As we left the nursing home I asked Dad if he wanted to get back into bed from his chair, and if I could give him a hand. In his endless humor he politely applauded for me (he gave me a hand) and indicated he could do just fine by himself. I had been around hospitals quite a bit through the years, visiting the sick. I had visited county and private nursing homes numerous times to visit or entertain the elderly. But I found my emotions in these visits were so powerful and dammed up. These emotions were personal. We told Dad we were on our way north in a few days and I could tell he was a little concerned about our travel as we had been watching heavy snow storms in the north on the Weather Channel that day. I believe it was on this visit that I was the last one out of the room. As I said my good-byes I saw him in tears more so than ever before, even during the emotional state he had been in for months. To this point I had been able to keep my composure during our visits, but this time I could not. I walked back to Dad and sat on the arm of the chair and gave him a hug, kissed his head and told him I loved him. And for a few seconds we both sat there in tears. I tore myself away and went back to Mom¿s house. After school was out for the Christmas holidays Charity and I made a quick run south to visit for a couple of days before our family went to Pennsylvania to visit the in-laws for the holidays. We helped Mom get a few things in order around the house. I washed her car, had the oil changed. I even washed Dad¿s little gray Chevy that had been sitting there undisturbed for many weeks. I think, in retrospect, that my busy-beaver activity was a partial stall to keep from going to the nursing home. Those visits were very difficult. Not only was Dad there in terminal health conditions, but down the hall was the father of my high school choral director who had suffered a stroke and had been in the home for many years, totally paralyzed. Visits with Frank Dudley were also difficult. During that visit Mom made an effort to get Dad¿s signature on some legal papers. He seemed to be agreeable to sign but was unable to physically manipulate the pen by that time. I still have a secret suspicion that he might have been preserving his last bit of independence and dignity in not giving his power of attorney. Perhaps not, but I thought I saw a little fight left in him that day. He was very weak and quickly went back to sleep after that effort. He had not taken any appreciable nourishment for many days. The family wrestled with the decision to honor his request to avoid life-support systems and feeding tubes. Although we all became experts in wishy-washiness, we honored his requests. The next morning I went back to visit Dad and he was not very responsive. Our neighbor, Willie Butler, had been sitting with him for some time. He said he had just been sleeping all morning. The day before he had responded quite positively to the fact that Johnny Long had been by to see him and had brought some flowers. That was the last smile I saw on his face. I sat with him for a while as he slept. He would open his eyes once and a while. Realizing this could go on all day, I decided to go to Mom¿s house and get some rest for the trip to Pennsylvania. I rubbed Dads arm as he lay there and said, ¿I wish you could tell us what¿s on your mind, I know it must be tough.¿ With that I left him sleeping. I was doing as well as would be expected keeping my macho emotions in check. As I drove home, I met one of the Three Musketeers of Bradley Drive walking around the corner, and I stopped to say hello. Pat Locker had been far more than a neighbor through the years and he summed things up so well. At first he was speechless but finally came up with some thoughtful, comforting words, and as he was about to lose his composure he said, ¿We are family.¿ With that I realized Pat wasn¿t losing a neighbor, he was losing a brother, no, a friend who was closer than a brother. His loss was as big as mine. I drove on home and for only the second or third time, I completely broke down into the tears of parental death. We returned to Chattanooga then set out for our trip to Pennsylvania. Faye¿s sister and brother-in-law hosted a family get-together on Saturday evening, December 23, 1995. We returned to my in-law¿s home from the party around 9:00 PM and shortly thereafter Mom called with the news of Dad¿s death. Thankfully, the mind operates on several levels, sometimes on several levels simultaneously. My sensible mind garnered the necessary details and made plans to travel back home. My merciful mind thanked God that Dad¿s illness had been with only minimal suffering and relatively short in duration. The rest of my mind conveniently went into neutral. The funeral went as all would hope a funeral to go. Hundreds of friends attended. Flowers arrived from family and significant friends. Mom said good-bye to her mate of fifty-seven years. The organ music evoked tears, the minister was comforting and the family dealt with the grief, even finding a few smiles and humorous moments with old friends. It was cold and overcast at Greenwood Cemetery. The wind was blowing and my suit wasn¿t quite warm enough, but we endured. Mom and George went on home. Willie, Ken and I waited there until the grave was closed. I tossed in a small handful of dirt from the front-end loader just before the worker began to cover the grave. Just seemed like the right thing to do. Then it was over. During Mom and Dad¿s last two visits in our home, I absorbed every moment as if it would be our last together. I knew Dad¿s health was failing, but I did not know how fast. They had been in Chattanooga in late May of 1995, and with the exception of his speech difficulty, Dad seemed rather robust. By October he had lost weight and strength, but was still getting around pretty well. What would I take for the weekend of October 29, 1995? That kind of wealth does not exist. In those two days, I pulled together nearly thirty years of life, memories, college, music, career, family, church...all of the things that really matter in one's life...into one neat memorable package that will last my lifetime. It is my deep belief that the happy days in October were carefully orchestrated by our loving, caring Heavenly Father. What a wonderful and kind gift.
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