Tonya Sardenelli:
CLASS OF 1989
Emerson Middle SchoolClass of 1989
Lakewood, OH
Lakewood High SchoolClass of 1994
Lakewood, OH
Goldwood Primary SchoolClass of 1985
Rocky river, OH
Kensington Intermediate SchoolClass of 1985
Rocky river, OH
Beach Elementary SchoolClass of 1981
Rocky river, OH
Tonya's Story
Life
Well guys I made it.... Life throws curve balls, but Ms. Williams always warned us, "Bozo's. We (Emerson Middle School) kids all survived and no one got hurt.
Think if school were like what it is today, we all would be in trouble.. Everyone remembers how we all had our clicks back then, but did that really get us anywere. We all made fun of, and teased the ones that were different then us, but why? Did it make things right? One doens't still prank that neard from middle school? or do they? Back then things were a lot different, we made them different, but is that right? Hmm something to ponder. And what ever happened to those people that were isolated from being "human" like Janet Flemming or Shawn Fredrick. Why did you pick on them? I got the stigma in Elementary school thanks to Devin Eckels, and I was teased and harrassed just like others were, but people like Mr. Eckles don't follow you your whole life, and what may have seemed evil back then only makes you stronger now. Even though my stigma left me in high school, there was always something.. I dind't fit it for this reason, I didn't fit in for that reason, but it was never right to do from the start.
And now.. we are all raising on own children, and for those of you who were the bulley's back then, and have children that are being teased and taunted, you now understand what it was like when you were doing the bulleying.
I ran into a kid from high school, I think his name was Bobby, he saw me at DrugMart in Lakewood, he came up to me and apologized as if to apply things were said about me behind my back and said he was sorry if he ever hurt me, and how childish it was. I'll never forget that. Maybe if I had those apologies back in my Senior year I wouldn't have committed suicide.... but since I am writing this today, I guess it failed. But for others like Jeff Sargent, Marnie Seagon, and that really preppy kid from the football team, what was his name... to name a few it didn't, and they died, because hmm.. People wouldn't accept them and were afraind...Expand for more
of being stereo typed.
What am I doing now:
I live in Ohio City raising my two girls, and am divorced. I enjoy the time with my children very much.
I joined this to gain insight on how people and if people have really changed, though out the years, or maybe they have stayed the same.
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Workplace
I could tell you about jobs alright... I have had enough for a lifetime. While at Lakewood High I did an internship at McDonald & Company Investments (downtown), then at an insurance company. After highschool, I worked here and there, it wasn't untill 99 that I got serious about my goals and worked as an Executive Assistant for a Financial Group in Cleveland, from there my skills soared. From there I worked as an Accounting Assistant for Cohen & Company CPA, I left Cohen after two year of HE*&, but gained a lot of insight and knowledge.
I took a billing position with another firm which was only temporary, soon after that I began a position that would take me on a three year tour of 41 states without ever leaving my desk. I became Operations Assistat for a large telecommunication provider.. what fun. But when I had my youngest daughter who is now two they fired me... NOT NICE!!!!.... Their loss, because by then who knew I would again DETOUR into something I really didn't get into...
GRANTS, well I worked for a large non-profit organization handling their grant contracts... Loved it!!! but they too thought that my outspokeness got in the way.... There I went packing my, by then "small box" after being shifted so much, one tends to lighten their load. I found my permenant home at a Inpatient/Outpatient Substance Abuse (Non-Profit, so DONATE!!!) Treatment Facility in Cleveland, as their Community Liaison....finally my own office with a view of the parking lot.. I'll take it.. To learn more about my exciting life just ask me.. you can find me on the " Y" under Sardenelli1975. Since you can't really give that information out on this, you should be able to figure out, since we all went to school!! lol
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